Sexuality

I Iove her but I just can't climax

Dear Rose, For the past two months I have been seeing someone that I consider a partner. My frustration is I do not know how to express my feelings with regards to sexual satisfaction. I am so attracted to this woman but I just cannot climax and find it really hard to express what I would like. When I say something, and she does it, it kinda turns me the other way and in turn I become more frustrated. Please what do I do? Signed, Frustrated
Rose Pappalardo  |  Dear Rose
I Iove her but I just can't climax

Dear Frustrated, I hear your pain! One of the biggest issues that women have is communicating what they want when it comes to the bedroom. The great thing is that she is prepared to try what you want. 

Women put so much pressure on themselves to perform and feel like failures if they don’t get it right in the first place. 

My advice to you is PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE. Take a weekend off from the world; stock up on some champagne, good music, plenty of good humor and remember to talk it through….

”a little to the left……a little to the right…..HARDER…..softer……”

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