Sex Question

My boyfriend is particularly blessed

My BF is particularly blessed. He wants our sex life to move to the next level, but every time things get happening, I chicken out, and I find myself disappointing him. What can I do? Ben
Rose Pappalardo  |  Dear Rose

Dear Ben, Being well blessed comes with pros and cons, and if you are a newbie to this kind of relationship, you need to seek the appropriate advice regarding how to prepare yourself for that level of loving.

We are lucky here in Australia that every state has a queer place to seek advice from. In the ACT it is Meridian, in NSW it’s ACON, in QLD it’s Queensland Council for LGBTI Health, and  so on. All of these services can give you the appropriate advice to be in a space to take your relationship to the next level.In the meantime, talk to your BF and explain your hesitance and your fears regarding this, and ask for a bit of patience until you are comfortable and confident going to the next level.


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