Have you thought about becoming a Foster Carer? If you are part of the LGBTIQ+ community, you may be wondering if fostering is something you can do. Well, the answer is most definitely yes!
What you may not know is that over 50,000 Aussie children are in need of a loving home. Many have been at risk of violence, neglect or abuse. Some parents may simply not have the capacity to provide the care and protection needed due to illness, financial stress, or an unexpected change in circumstances. This means the need for foster carers continues to be critical.
To be a foster carer you must be aged over 21, have a spare bedroom and be able to provide a safe home environment.
There are a few common myths about foster care, so we thought we would reach out to ACT Together to clear some of those up.
BUSTING MYTHS
EVERY CHILD IN NEED OF FOSTER CARE HAS PROBLEMS
They don’t. They are children who need a safe home and the protection of stable adults who care. Some children in care can have complex needs because of past trauma, but in reality,
they are no less or more naughty than other kids.
FOSTER CARE IS ONLY SHORT TERM
It’s not always the case. Carers are needed for both short and long term foster care options.
I CAN’T FOSTER BECAUSE I’M PART OF THE LGBTIQ+ COMMUNITY OR I’M SINGLE
Not true! There are many same-sex couples and single people that foster. Single carers, older carers, carers of different ethnic backgrounds and religions, and carers with or without other children are all welcome to apply. Your sexuality, race, religion, age or parenting experience will not be what is considered.
Whether you have a child’s best interest is the first priority.
FOSTERING IS EASY
Any parent will tell you it’s not always easy. Being a foster carer does require patience at times of uncertainty, and time management skills to juggle the needs of the children in your care. The important thing to note as there is plenty of support, and it will be one of the most rewarding things you will ever do.
CHILDREN HAVE LITTLE TO NO CONTACT WITH THEIR BIRTH PARENTS OR RELATIVES
They will. You will play a crucial role in helping the child maintain a relationship with their parents and extended family. You need to be open and willing to assist in this process, but you’re not expected you to do this alone.
This is a relationship that will develop over time.
IT’S PRETTY MUCH THE SAME AS ADOPTION
It’s not. Best endeavours are made to return children to their families, but where that is not possible, finding a long-term placement is desirable so children do not have to move from one home to another.
I CAN’T FOSTER BECAUSE I WORK
Yes, you can. The fact is most people need to work to support their lives. In some cases, carers may be asked to have some time off to integrate the child into their home and start the attachment process, which is the foundation of a successful placement.
YOU NEED TO HAVE PLENTY OF MONEY
Incorrect. You do need to be financially stable. However you don’t have to own your own house, have a highly paid job or be a double-income family.
IT’S A DIFFICULT PROCESS TO BECOME A CARER
It isn’t, but it does take some time. It involves several steps to ensure you are ready to foster a child.
